Too raunchy to wear for a show?
Too raunchy to wear for a show?
#1Too raunchy to wear for a show?
Posted: 4/28/19 at 1:41pm
Random thread, I know. But I need your advice because I feel like I could dress better in a place as a frequent show goer.
So, Im going to Baltimores Come From Away tonight. Right now, Im wearing a shirt that shows off a good amount of skin from my neck to a little bit of my chest. It has spaghetti straps as well. Is that too racy for a nice show?
BrodyFosse123
Broadway Legend Joined: 2/27/06
#2Too raunchy to wear for a show?
Posted: 4/28/19 at 1:46pm
Sweets. You’re sitting down for the performance on stage. Only those seeing you arrive and heading to your seat will see what you’re wearing. Lots of people wear what they feel like wearing, regardless if it’s appropriate or not (that’s subjective). Once you sit down, you could take off your dress and only those around you will only know.
#3Too raunchy to wear for a show?
Posted: 4/28/19 at 1:49pmYou're just going to be cold.
#4Too raunchy to wear for a show?
Posted: 4/28/19 at 1:58pm
I wouldn't worry. Just go and enjoy the show!
#5Too raunchy to wear for a show?
Posted: 4/28/19 at 1:58pm
I wouldn't worry. Just go and enjoy the show!
JSquared2
Broadway Legend Joined: 3/23/17
#6Too raunchy to wear for a show?
Posted: 4/28/19 at 2:29pmIf you have to ask a bunch of strangers if your outfit is inappropriate, then it probably is.
John Adams
Broadway Legend Joined: 4/1/13
#8Too raunchy to wear for a show?
Posted: 4/28/19 at 4:06pm
disneybroadwayfan22 said: "I feel like I could dress better in a place as a frequent show goer."
I'm gonna side with YOU on this. Not because I think what you're wearing isn't appropriate mind you, but because you've expressed your own level of discomfort regarding your outfit.
When I saw Tootsie in Chicago, there was a male patron wearing what could have been a costume for Edna Turnbladt from Hairspray. The outfit included an unflattering house dress (mu-mu style) and a wig that (firstly) was obviously a wig, and (secondly) looked like it was removed from its acrylic (like the hair itself) packaging, and placed directly on the wearer's head, un-styled.
I won't lie. My first thought was, "Oh, honey - let me help you with that..." But my more predominant thought was, "You go! U B U!"
Wear what you have the comfort and confidence to wear unabashedly - and within the laws of your state. 
RWPrincess
Broadway Legend Joined: 12/7/18
#9Too raunchy to wear for a show?
Posted: 4/28/19 at 4:13pm
I think it sounds fine as long as you're comfortable with wearing it. But I'd definitely recommend a sweater as theaters can get cold. Have fun!
#10Too raunchy to wear for a show?
Posted: 4/28/19 at 5:04pm
disneybroadwayfan22 said: "Random thread, I know. But I need your advice because I feel like I could dress better in a place as a frequent show goer.
So, Im going to Baltimores Come From Away tonight. Right now, Im wearing a shirt that shows off a good amount of skin from my neck to a little bit of my chest. It has spaghetti straps as well. Is that too racy for a nice show?"
You really needed to post this on BWW!? Why are you asking us? Why not your bff or a friend. Anyway, you chose to wear what you did! Enough said....did it really matter in the long run what you chose to wear and racy? HA!
#11Too raunchy to wear for a show?
Posted: 4/28/19 at 9:11pm
JSquared2 said: "If you have to ask a bunch of strangers if your outfit is inappropriate, then it probably is."
If you're uptight enough to ask a bunch of strangers if your outfit is inappropriate, then it probably isn't.
Rainah
Broadway Star Joined: 11/24/16
#12Too raunchy to wear for a show?
Posted: 4/28/19 at 10:24pm
I find a lot of joy in dressing up for a show. Picking out a nice outfit, feeling a bit fancy, feeling like I match the show I'm seeing. (Jewel tones for The King And I, 30s cut skirt and large gold bracelets for Hadestown, rich reds and ostentatious jewelry for Comet). It's a part of the experience for me.
I know other people who get anxiety at the very thought. It's extra pressure on them. They'd rather not engage. And that's fine. You don't owe anyone at the theatre anything except being quiet and non distracting to their own experience.
Would you be more comfortable wearing something else? Either physically or psychologically? Would you enjoy your experience more if you changed? Or would you enjoy it less?
VintageSnarker
Broadway Legend Joined: 1/30/15
#13Too raunchy to wear for a show?
Posted: 4/29/19 at 3:28am
By "nice show" do you mean fancy or family friendly/conservative? It's Baltimore. I think you'll be fine.
#14Too raunchy to wear for a show?
Posted: 4/29/19 at 6:53amWhen I saw COME FROM AWAY, I went commando.
LuPita2
Broadway Star Joined: 9/11/18
#15Too raunchy to wear for a show?
Posted: 4/29/19 at 6:47pm
Being over dressed is always better than being under dressed. Those only things that are not allowed in a Broadway theater are wife beaters tanks, cargo shorts (never acceptable anywhere ever) and dirty shoes.
You're fine, sweetie! 
Niles Silvers
Stand-by Joined: 9/27/18
#16Too raunchy to wear for a show?
Posted: 4/30/19 at 11:32am
Dear, you must be awfully bored to make up a ridiculous posting such as this. Also, exactly how old are you to be using the term "racy"?
JSquared2
Broadway Legend Joined: 3/23/17
#17Too raunchy to wear for a show?
Posted: 4/30/19 at 11:52am
Niles Silvers said: "Dear, you must be awfully bored to make up a ridiculous posting such as this. Also, exactly how old are you to be using the term "racy"?"
I'll wager her outfit was "the cat's pajamas"!
JGPR2
Featured Actor Joined: 2/18/17
#18Too raunchy to wear for a show?
Posted: 4/30/19 at 6:54pm
"cargo shorts (never acceptable anywhere ever) "
Wow. I understand they are not fashionable to many people but they IMO are perfect for a guy to wear to place like Disney when he does not want to carry a bag around the park all day.
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