Ah, so you have cute little kids. That makes a difference
I honestly don't know the protocol for something like this. I have to imagine that they wouldn't answer the door while a show is actually in progress. But maybe before.
"All our dreams can come true -- if we have the courage to pursue them." -- Walt Disney
We must have different Gods. My God said "do to others what you would have them do to you". Your God seems to have said "My Way or the Highway".