IF its a rule, then the problem is more insubordination.
Kids aren't allowed to use their cell phones in school. not much happens if a kid gets caught (unless it happens a number of times) but a kid that refuses to turn it over to a staff member would be in big trouble.
However, if its not in their handbook that purses aren't allowed: then they have no right whatsoever. They will lose in court.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
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