I'm almost 100% sure the only time Tate was seen out of the house was on Halloween, which (unless I'm wrong) was the episode where Ben said he'd meet him elsewhere. The show established that the ghosts could leave the property on Halloween.
I've already deleted last night's episode, so I'm going for memory, but I thought all the dialogue in the scene with Ben and Hayden in the bar was about her trying to get with him for the first time. I guess it was unclear because Eric is the second person to say he didn't realize it was a flashback, but I thought it was completely evident that that scene took place before their affair started.
ETA - I didn't see Eric's most recent post when I had typed this.
I agree about the Immaculate Conception thing, but I swear to God, I know fire and brimstone Christians who don't understand that the Immaculate Conception means that Mary was conceived without the stain of original sin and not that Jesus was conceived without anyone having sex.
Updated On: 12/1/11 at 06:30 PM