Can The Adults Please Smoke? Part 26: Apparently They Can Drink, too!- Page 107

[NYadgal]

Posted: 11/16/08 at 1:04am

That's a relief, YWIW!

(And wood knocked for the earthquake! )

[YouWantitWhen????]

Posted: 11/16/08 at 1:08am

I have two furry beasts sitting on my table chilling with me, so all is good.

I am just going to repost this since I am a proud mama:

How Big Already:



Furballs:

[NYadgal]

Posted: 11/16/08 at 1:14am

Adorable! And, all is right with the world.

Well, SNL is over, so it's bedtime for me...

Sweet dreams to all.

Or, happy evening to those of you who still have the evening left to enjoy!

[YouWantitWhen????]

Posted: 11/16/08 at 1:16am

Night Addy - I am going to shut off the computer myself for the night.

Have a wonderful Sunday!

Posted: 11/16/08 at 1:18am

Deet and Shira, I love you.

Slap away.

[shira467]

Posted: 11/16/08 at 1:22am

In this crowd, I believe slapping is a regular activity.

Night Addy, Night YWIW. G'night sleeping kitties!

[MotorTink]

Posted: 11/16/08 at 1:26am

have you ever wondered when does it ever end??

I was in a car accident tonight. People started slamming on their brakes because of an upcoming puddle, and well my car decided to have a mind of its own and fish-tailed all over the place and ended up head first into a guardrail. 95% sure the car is totaled. No one else was involved miraculously and I have no serious injuries so far, just a pretty banged up knee.

Oh, and if all that wasn't bad enough...it was literally 1 exit past where Chris's crash site was.

**crawls into liquor cabinet and padlocks door***

[NYadgal]

Posted: 11/16/08 at 1:30am

OMG! Tink!!!

Are you ok? Do you need anything?

[shira467]

Posted: 11/16/08 at 1:39am

*hugs*

[Q]

Posted: 11/16/08 at 4:17am

Tink, I've reached a point where I just keep you constantly on prayer rotation. Honestly, enough is enough - and I'm SURE you feel that way!

Thank goodness you're ok - but please, if there's ANY sign that there might be a problem, please get it checked.

[shameless]

Posted: 11/16/08 at 9:37am

Well, Tinkerbell, because I'm so relieved that you're okay, I'll wait until later to yell at you for not picking up the phone.

Updated On: 11/16/08 at 09:37 AM

[MotorTink]

Posted: 11/16/08 at 11:03am

Q - oh yes, I do, but thank you for the care and prayers.

shameys - I'm sorry

[bdwaygirl]

Posted: 11/16/08 at 11:06am

OMG, Tink! Glad to hear you're okay!

[harris007]

Posted: 11/16/08 at 11:26am

OMG. Tinky. *the cows dash over with hugs*

[shira467]

Posted: 11/16/08 at 11:49am

We need happy drinks, no?

[YouWantitWhen????]

Posted: 11/16/08 at 12:08pm

Tink, I just think you are getting all of the crappy stuff done early in your life, so the last 3/4's will be amazing.

Be well, be safe. Go to the doctor if you have any doubts.

I am glad you are OK.

[shameless]

Posted: 11/16/08 at 1:06pm

That's okay, Sunshine. As long as you're not seriously hurt. Like YWIW said, see a doctor if you have any doubts.

But, for future reference, this is the kind of stuff you can wake me to tell me. Actually, there's nothing you can't wake me up to tell me.

Alrighty, I gotta go run some errands. I'll check back in tonight.

Posted: 11/16/08 at 1:33pm

Oh Tink! I'm so glad you're OK. *hugs*

[harris007]

Posted: 11/16/08 at 1:40pm

More hugs for my tinky. And on a side note. I found a new place. And a roomie I have a lot in common with. And for 100 less a month

Posted: 11/16/08 at 2:29pm

God. He walked by the window, and I started crying. I hate myself.

I'm going to buy milk.

[Q]

Posted: 11/16/08 at 2:34pm

DGG - I said something once to Shira when she went through heartache, and I'll share it with you. Yes, it is a horrible feeling - maybe even the worst there is - BUT, at least it means you CAN feel that way, and you will have the opportunity again. Some people go through their entire lives never knowing (or caring) if that type of desire/care is even possible for them. This shows that you have that very real and deep capacity.

[harris007]

Posted: 11/16/08 at 2:54pm

The cows bring milk to dgg. And put on the billy elliot cd

Posted: 11/16/08 at 3:02pm

Thanks Q and Harris.

Q, I know that. But I still hate feeling this way. I hurt so badly.

[MotorTink]

Posted: 11/16/08 at 3:23pm

DGG - I don't think anyone ever enjoys feeling hurt but it happens anyway. I haven't learned much about heartache or loss recently other than to just embrace it. It's going to be there no matter what you do, so embrace it..cry, scream, just let it out. It'll suck but eventually will get better and the fact that you dealt with it will make the healing process smoother when you reach that point.

Don't be me. I internalize it all and feel that ignoring it or justifying it will make it hurt less. It doesn't. It just leads to extreme emotional breakdowns once enough piles up and explodes. Or hours long psychotic rants to Shameys. I may not be able to understand it or act on it yet, but I do know that what they say is true and that expressing your emotions, whether happy or sad, is the most therapeutic action. Another somewhat smart thing I have heard/read is to try and find a good outlet for it. Try a journal where you just record any and all feelings. If you want to write hateful things about someone, do it. If two seconds later you want to write something nice about that same person, do it. Just go all out, no holding back. Whatever you are feeling. No one will ever see it so you can just unleash. Shameys sent me a journal right after Chris died and after balking at it because that is not my thing, i finally decided to give it a try, and while weird and all, it was helpful. At first I still felt the need to edit what I was saying, but I eventually grew past that and started jotting down any single thought i was having, and it felt good to finally be able to be 100% free in my thoughts and feelings.

Ok, i totally just babbled on...sorry.

[shira467]

Posted: 11/16/08 at 3:23pm

Q - You'll be proud. I told her exactly what you told me. And I must say, she accepted it MUCH better than I.