No one knows what goes on inside someone else's relationship. No one knows what private behaviors and agreements exist. And when there's trouble, although it kills me to say this, it's almost always been contributed to by both parties.
Seems like it would be more supportive for fans of Idina to ignore the gossip, rather than over-analyzing, for days on end, a relationship about which no one really knows the real story.
Just sayin...
Sueleen Gay: "Here you go, Bitch, now go make some fukcing lemonade." 10/28/10