Matt, I've been following your updates on this board and this news is so sad to hear after the hopeful outlook you had posted before. You and your whole family are in my prayers.
I agree that the decision to wait until your father's garden is in bloom is especially fitting and beautiful. Maybe in the meantime you and your mother could find a time to make it to New York to see Harvey in La Cage? I think it could be a good break for both of you.
I wish you both comfort and solace.
And no one grew into anything new, we just became the worst of what we were."