I Enjoy Being a Girl Vol 2! — Page 150

I can't figure out what to wear......Ugh.

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Okay, as usual, I need to vent...

This has been the day from hell. Right now my own mother is not speaking to me. I have been staying at my mother house for the last couple of days (it was horrible... if my power ever gets turned off again I am staying with my dad or on a cardboard box in the backroom of my store), well this morning my mother blaimed me for the fact that both her and my brother were late... this was crazy because I was ready a whole 20 mins before she was. Well, my power got turned back on today so my mom insisted on picking me up from work (even though I wanted to stay downtown and try to catch my new kinda-crush-but more on that in a sec) and we were on the way to my place when my cell rang... it was one of my students asking me where I was. I told her I don't know what she meant and she told me that my ass of a "director" had scheduled a rehearsal at 4 for my kids and didn't tell me! I argued with him over the phone and told him I was on my way. My mom flipped out She started screaming at me that I was ridiculous and I had my priorities all wrong. Sh also told me that I was taking away from her day and her plans and that I was "done with all this high school ****". I told her that this was not my fault and I had made a commitment to these kids. She just kept yelling about how I was selfish and I told her that I never said she had to pick me up and she screamed "what the hell does that mean?!" so I yelled back, finally breaking down "it means I am calling dad." I got out of the car and slammed the door. That was at 4:15 and she hasn't spoken to me since then. I have no food except popcorn and oatmeal and all of my makeup and hair stuff is still at her house.... my stepdad even thinks she is being nutso.

I am gad to be home though. Very, very glad

On a happier note- I met a really cute guy that actually might be interested in me at my friends halloween party! He's from Brooklyn and is older then me, which I like. At the party he kept calling me "bella diva"

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I'm sorry everyone has so much drama! I hope it all clears up soon. Kels, that sounds like a nightmare, and I think we've all been there. Give yourself and your mother some time, and she'll come around. Moms always do.

If it's any consolation, my roommate freaked on me today. We were watching NCIS, there was a throwaway line about perfume being a woman's strongest accessory, and I said I didn't think that was true. My roommate disagreed, I said "I don't know, none of my male friends notice something like that," and the next thing you know she's screaming about how I always have to get the last word in and be right and disagree with everything she says. THE HELL? I literally said nothing except "I'm sorry," and then she stormed out and I haven't seen in her in hours. Oooookay. Usually, I realize it when I'm being difficult...really not seeing what I did in this situation. It is TOTALLY a Monday.

GAH! So much drama in the world!

Jazzy - Yeah.. hs sucks for that very reason. I hope you work things out with this guy! It sucks that you have to hide it.

Stock - I hope you had SO MUCH FUN at the concert!

Kels - Yeah, it sounds like you just need to move far far away! Run! As fast as you can!

SAMN - Good luck with the recital/show!

JAG - LOL Sounds like your roommate is psycho!

Tofu - OH tofu, LOL yeah, one day you will meet a cute girl who ISN'T a bitch! One day!

And if anyone is having a bad day, sorry if you've seen me post this on fb/twitter, but I cannot get enough of this music video. It's WAY too adorable and puts me in such a good mood and hopefully it will for you too!

You and I - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wqvKzk5AoB8

Have a great day everyone!

I find it hilarious that there are so many random conversations going on in this thread.

All of you going through drama, you are in my thoughts!

So Daughtry. Oh. My. God. What a difference 3 years has made since the first time I saw them. I even noticed a difference the 2nd time which was only 7 months after the first time. This is their first headlining arena tour, and they have ARRIVED! The stage set, the light show, the pyrotechnics! WOO HOO! And they looked and sounded amazing. The did a cover of Possum Kingdom (is that the name?) that was out of this world. And Chris did an acoustic of "In The Air Tonight" with the band kicking in with the drum solo halfway through that was to die for....his voice was impeccable last night. And of course all of the original songs from the old and new CD's. And he was hawt as crap. *sigh* I love those guys.

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Yep, he went with me. But he seemed sort of bored, although he claimed he wasn't. It's nowhere near as fun seeing a band with your S.O. as it is with a girlfriend you can scream and squeeeee with.

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I think you have told me that before......was he in Absent Element?

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There were a few bands but I don't know the order he was in them in. I think Absent Element was the last one.

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Updated On: 6/11/20 at 06:07 PM

Okay, ladies, while I am not a regular contributor to this thread, can I come here to vent for a moment? I figure my girls can understand. Thanks.

In the last five weeks, I have lost the person on this planet that meant the most to me besides my fiancee. I know you're supposed to say you love your family the most, but I loved this kid from the moment she was born. Her mom was my theatre teacher and as she often says, I helped raise her. She died October 1st at 18. I have been a mess. Two weeks ago, my best friend lost the twins she was carrying. She was four months along. Last week, one of my dearest friends lost her grandmother unexpectedly. This friend, who barely knew the young friend I lost, and her wife drove 8 hours to my hometown to be with me through the memorial services. I feel horrible that I couldn't do the same for her.

Now, as if that wasn't enough... My mom lost her job today. Totally unexpectedly. She's an engineering assistant and has been for three years. She's been with the company for eight. She applied and was given this position with no experience, but they knew her and loved her. She has gotten nothing but praise until three months ago when her boss got a new boss. He's been very hard on her, telling her she needs to be doing more. She's tried to learn everything he said she should be doing. She's trying to teach herself from a book, as they didn't think taking a class was necessary and her boss had no time to teach her. The big new boss told her that she should be able to do her immediate boss's job. He's an ENGINEER. She is not. She's been out digging ditches and surveying property and staking the ground for poles to be put up, none of which was in her original job description. She's 53, 5'4" and teeny. She's the only woman in a building with around 40 men. So, the big boss came in this morning and started quizzing her about surveying the ground to place an electrical pole. She said she couldn't tell him, but she could show him if they could go to the field. He said never mind and left. He walked in at the end of the day and told her that she wasn't progressing enough for his liking and told her to clean out her desk. After eight years, her job is just gone. He took her phone. She'll lose her health insurance. It's ridiculous. And on a selfish note, I am saving to move to Sweden in May. Now I will probably have to help them out. Good times.

Is life going to get better?

/end vent. Thank you. I needed to type all that out.

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Updated On: 11/3/09 at 11:40 PM

For you, JerseyGirl. I hope it brings you as much happiness as it has for me.



Sadly this is the only thing that's making me happy this week so far. I swear, Sara Ramirez is the only female who could turn me into a lesbian.

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Thanks so much, gals. I knew I vented in the right place. :)

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Well, initially, I am moving in with her in a tiny town near Axvall. If you look at the map, there are two big lakes in the middle of Southern Sweden. We'll be right between those. In the fall, we're hopefully moving to Gothenburg. :)

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