Capturing The Friedmans.
And I just want to say something about the supposedly very graphic rape scene in Irreversible. It's nothing of the kind. It's very long and it's VERY disturbing, but I really wouldn't say it was graphic. The reason it's so disturbing is it focuses so relentlessly on Monica Bellucci's pain and suffering. It's an exceptional but very difficult film.
Nothing precious, plain to see, don't make a fuss over me. Not loud, not soft, but somewhere inbetween. Say sorry, just let it be the word you mean.