This is going to sound stupid right off the bat because of where it's from, but on an episode of South Park I saw a few days ago, one of the kids was saying that he was okay with sometimes feeling heartbreak and sadness, because the fact that he *could* feel such extreme, sad pain meant that he had happy things by which to measure other events by. If you can feel so sad about something, it means that once, it was good enough for you to feel so sad about it going away. So, if you didn't feel sadness, then that would mean your life didn't have good in it, and nobody wants that. You have to know good to feel bad, he was saying.
I suppose that's a fair rationalization for sadness and why it's okay to feel, but it doesn't do much to make me wish I were immune to it, sometimes.
A work of art is an invitation to love.
Updated On: 5/8/06 at 12:52 AM