Hi, everyone. OP here, and I want to say that I did not anticipate this many responses and this much intensity to my question. It makes me sad to see that people are getting in such heated arguments on a thread I started, and I apologize for the fact that people are fighting over a question I posed.
I also want to say that I have been trying my best to read every single response, although that task has been challenging, what with so many lengthy replies. Here is my takeaway from everything, and I thank everybody for giving me their two cents and helping to educate me.
My stance on TKAI is this; I will continue to like the show, and I can do so ethically as long as I acknowledge the problems instead of pretending they don't exist. I suppose we do this all the time with problematic media, such as Gone With the Wind, The Blind Side, and To Kill a Mockingbird. I also gather that I can use The King and I as a learning tool, not as a tool for the history of Thailand, but for the history of Asian representation in western media. Besides, I personally like the show for its music, not necessarily for its story and its themes.
As for hoping to play Anna, I am coming to terms with the fact that I probably never will, and that's okay. I will never be a professional Broadway actress, and there are many roles that I simply will never play. On the bright side, never getting to play Anna in full doesn't stop me from singing Hello, Young Lovers in concerts and cabarets.
Again, thank you so much for your help. We are all trying to do our part to keep beautiful scores from dying.
"See a picture of a woman wearing four years of confusion like a scar."