As I've said before: you cannot compare a limited run attendance record with an open run. Completely different. The "stars" that appear in those have FINANCIAL incentive to appear every performance. You can and are willing to put up with more when it's temporary. You know not to plan "social" conflicts for 3 months. You can't do that for a year. Nor is it fair to compare performing in a musical vs a straight play. More opportunities with sickness, fatigue and injury.
I really don't care about an actor's absences. I would if I were a producer and looking to hire....but not as an audience member. Even when I'm there to see a specific actor...I might be disappointed, but I get over it. I take sick days, I take personal days....sometimes, just because I feel like it. And I love my job, am an integral part of place of employment. Just like understudies, someone has to be paid to take my place. Are the people around me dissappointed? Some. Life goes on.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.