This post is a tangent from the topic of Lauren Bacall but still on topic of the basic premise.
when it comes to actors/artists/public personalities I greatly admire, I'd rather not meet them and have a personal exchange.
Why? because anything negative which may ensue could color my love for that person's work. It shouldn't, but it could.
For example, I was a great admirer of Linda Hunt, the actor, especially of her work in The Year of Living Dangerously. I was doing extra work on the film She-Devil, and was placed shoulder to shoulders touching next to Ms. Hunt in a scene. After a while, I mustered up the nerve to say something as trite as "I really admire your work, et." She kind of sneered and uttered a "harumph." I wish I could have been swallowed through the ground, as I had to remain in that position for several more hours.
Yes, people have their moods and shouldn't be judged wholly on them, but that little interchange spoiled my image of Linda Hunt.
So I don't bother trying to meet my idols.
<-----I'M TOTES ROLLING MY EYES