i've met many people that are nice, gracious to their fans etc, and there are a few people that i've gotten to know who are extraordinarily kind people.
marian seldes is a goddess, a saint to me.
cherry jones is also a goddess -- she really listens to what you're saying and takes it all in.
george hearn is the nicest most gracious man in all of show business, imo.
liz callaway & ann hampton callaway are exceedingly generous and down to earth.
when i was a mere child i would often see jessica tandy on the 104 bus going downtown (this is like seeing royalty on the bus)this was in pre-driving miss daisy time and she always had such a twinkle in her eye. "miss tandy--why are you on the bus?!" "well-it's just the best way to get around!" i think she was amused that someone my age knew who she was.
Mind is Mantra.