Not to mention it's simply rude to stage door before a show.
I'm sorry, ma'am, but you experienced NOTHING to be upset over --certainly nothing to besmirch Martin's character over.
You also missed excellent teachable moments for your daughter: -- stars are people and have lives and responsibilities
- you need to respect that no, means no
- you don't get everything you want
- accept disappointment with GRACE
What she learned from you: is everyone is owed something and that you let little, unimportant things ruin the bigger picture.
You had tickets to see a show, not for a signature.
(and before you spout that I don't understand, I have kids and bring them to shows all the time, sometimes we stage door. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't. It's never "ruined" anything, because my children understand that meeting the actors is a BONUS and a GIFT -- not an expectation or right.)
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.