Phantom4ever said: "Prior to about 2011, I would always have to go with someone to a Broadway show. I would ask current friends, former friends, exes; I would look up people I haven’t spoken to you in years. Then, I finally just ran out of people willing to keep seeing shows with me. Too many people I knew saw theater as a once-a-year thing, not a constant thing like me. So, I finally went by myself. I felt like everyone was staring at me and feeling sorry for the friendless loser. But then I realized: hey I can buy an overpriced M&Ms and eat it all myself. I could stay through the end of the orchestral musics rather than leave when the curtain closes. I could stand by the souvenir stand and loiter before I made a purchase. So, I started to see pretty much all of my Broadway shows alone. I do have to sit on the aisle due to my anxiety but I always manage to find good seats."
Kind of the same here. I would also have people cancel out the day of. I got tired of that years ago. I did have a great theatre partner and good friend for about 4 years in the early 2000's.
I also love hanging out at the Merch stand and taking my time to decide what I want. (Usually only a magnet!) and also stay until the music ended. I too sit on an aisle, if I can, due to my right foot (An erector set in there!). Barometric pressure can cause pain so I like to be able to extend it if it happens in a theater.
I also like meeting people sitting next to me and usually end up chatting with them, sometimes walking out discussing the show. I like going alone if it is a serious/emotional show. Also, if it is a special show I like to go alone. I had never seen Hello Dolly and planned to see it with Donna Murphy. I just basked in it and enjoyed being on cloud 9 alone after. Same with The "Pippin" revival. I had never seen it and I had been part of that special choir for "Just No Time At All". Saw the show after the choir recording and broke down crying across the street from the theater just thinking how fantastic it was and that I was a small part of it. Something I needed to do alone. And I was A MESS after "The Normal Heart" across from the theater.
Also, I don't like to comment during a show and a lot of people I have gone to the theatre with do.
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Updated On: 3/4/26 at 09:24 PM