I don't find Bobby's "sudden" proposal to Amy to be any more sincere than his pleas for April to "stay," during Barcelona.
He says it because he knows (or he thinks he knows) there's no way it could happen. There's a safety in proposing to the "unavailable."
I don't think he really wants to suddenly marry Amy while she stands there in her wedding dress, having just rejected one of Bobby's other close friends (Paul). He just blurts it out because he feels sorry for her. He'll jump in and save the day. He doesn't mean it. He would have a really big "Oh, God" moment if she had said yes.
It's the same cat and mouse game he plays with Kathy. He tells her he wanted to marry her a while ago, only because it's in the past and he is removed from it now. He loves flirting with the fire as long as he's sure he can't actually get burned by someone saying "yes." He's not ready for that.
EDIT: I will add that this is the one part of "Marry Me a Little" that I really like. The ending of the song where he keeps repeating, "I'm ready! I"m ready!" Neil Patrick Harris did a wonderful acting job on it, where it started out all big and confident, and each "I'm ready!" lost more steam and got quieter as if he doubted it more and more.
"Jaws is the Citizen Kane of movies."
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Updated On: 7/2/13 at 11:13 AM