This is very sad news. He was truly one of the greats.
Does anyone remember back in 2007 when Coast of Utopia was getting so much (deserved) awards attention, and someone on a TV program pronounced his name as "stahpard" (which is how he pronounces it)? I had heard his name pronounced as "STAHP-erd" my whole life before that, and I remember there was a flurry of activity online where people were asking each other, "Is that how his name is supposed to be pronounced?" I thought it was the 2007 Tonys, but the announcer, Marcia Gay Harden, and even Jack O'Brien (the director of Coast of Utopia) and Andre Bishop of Lincoln Center pronounce it as STAHP-erd. Of the people on the main telecast, only Billy Crudup pronounces it correctly but he does it fairly subtly and very early in the program (his was the first award), and I'm pretty sure it wasn't him that drew the attention. The other award winner from Coast of Utopia from the main telecast, Jennifer Ehle, just calls him, "Tom," without saying his last name.
Does anyone remember who said his name correctly and caused some discussion? I can't find footage online of the Tony nomination announcement, the creative arts portion of the Tony program, or of the Drama Desks or any other award ceremony from that year.
"What was the name of that cheese that I like?"
"you can't run away forever...but there's nothing wrong with getting a good head start"
"well I hope and I pray, that maybe someday, you'll walk in the room with my heart"