Theatrefan, Haha, if I had an address I would do the same thing. Alas, I don't.
My friend's job was to oversea the transfer of the show form London to Broadway. Making sure that all of the technical elements were okay and the parts of the set that were built in London for the Broadway production arrived safely etc.
I believe her title is Associate scenic design. And, she did say that yes, she orchestrated the chandelier to fall at full speed that one time. And, yes, she did get an ear full for it. However, she said that it was very much worth it when all was said and done.
"If you try to shag my husband while I am still alive, I will shove the art of motorcycle maintenance up your rancid little Cu**. That's a good dear"
Tom Stoppard's Rock N Roll