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Biphobia in the gay community.Has anyone expierenced it?
#100re: Biphobia in the gay community. Has anyone experienced it?
Posted: 9/5/06 at 3:16pm
Dammit, what happened to Bisexuals: Why Do They Exist, And Will Society Ever Accept Them As Anything But Greedy Slutmongering Orgasm Addicts?
Ask Undi how I treat a lil' lady, blueroses. :-P
SueleenGay
Broadway Legend Joined: 6/9/03
#101re: Biphobia in the gay community. Has anyone experienced it?
Posted: 9/5/06 at 3:17pm
"'cause sueleen said so? "
Reason enough for me!
SueleenGay
Broadway Legend Joined: 6/9/03
#103re: Biphobia in the gay community. Has anyone experienced it?
Posted: 9/5/06 at 3:20pm
Well, at least the myster of "who is Sueleen" has been solved.
So glad you're here, Georgia.
#104re: Biphobia in the gay community. Has anyone experienced it?
Posted: 9/5/06 at 3:21pm
now did I say a lack of attraction equaled racism/prejudice? I believe I clarified that was not what I was saying.
I am saying that the harsh wording is the problem.
I am not going to continue to go around in circles on this. I believe I made my point clearly and you all have yours.
if there's nothing new to add, then I believe we are done.
#105re: Biphobia in the gay community. Has anyone experienced it?
Posted: 9/5/06 at 3:22pm
i still love you, jerby, ya know - plutonically.
PED
#106re: Biphobia in the gay community. Has anyone experienced it?
Posted: 9/5/06 at 3:23pm
Dwarfs.
now THERE'S a topic.
#107biphobia in the gay community. has anyone experienced it?
Posted: 9/5/06 at 3:25pm
you gays and your harsh words, tsk, tsk, tsk.
...global warming can manifest itself as heat, cool, precipitation, storms, drought, wind, or any other phenomenon, much like a shapeshifter. -- jim geraghty
pray to st. jude
i'm a sonic reducer
he was the gimmicky sort
fenchurch=mejusthavingfun=magwildwood=mmousefan=bkcollector=bradmajors=somethingtotalkabout: the fenchurch mpd collective
#108biphobia in the gay community. has anyone experienced it?
Posted: 9/5/06 at 3:25pmis it dwarfs or dwarves?
PED
MOXIEINTHECITY
Broadway Star Joined: 5/11/06
#109re: Biphobia in the gay community. Has anyone experienced it?
Posted: 9/5/06 at 3:27pm
Not all gay men have gone through the "try bi" phase...some of us have been raging, screaming polesmokers since birth;
Okay. That settles it. I'm having your babies for you.
I was going to bring up the whole Kinsey 1-6 scale thing. I recently got a letter from a woman who's dating a guy who is bisexual. She knew he was bisexual before they dated and thought she was okay with it, but now isn't sure and break things off. Here's what I told her:
It's been my experience that people most fear what they can not define. Gay? Okay. Straight? Okay. Bi? But...wait...how the...what the...
We all have this idea in our head of what's "right" for us. Straight guy, straight girl, gay guy, gay girl. Labels make us comfortable because it allows us to categorize and compartmentalize everything.
Then we are confronted with something that falls outside of these strict little parameters that we set up for ourselves. It's not that we question the other person and their choices...it's that we start to question ours.
If someone doesn't embrace or accept bisexuality, I see that as more about them then it is about whomever they might be analyzing or judging.
#110biphobia in the gay community. has anyone experienced it?
Posted: 9/5/06 at 3:27pmi just call him jerby.
...global warming can manifest itself as heat, cool, precipitation, storms, drought, wind, or any other phenomenon, much like a shapeshifter. -- jim geraghty
pray to st. jude
i'm a sonic reducer
he was the gimmicky sort
fenchurch=mejusthavingfun=magwildwood=mmousefan=bkcollector=bradmajors=somethingtotalkabout: the fenchurch mpd collective
#111biphobia in the gay community. has anyone experienced it?
Posted: 9/5/06 at 3:27pm
Dwarfs.
Aaaaaaaaaand, countdown to thread deletion.
At least we uncovered a few things.
Bisexuals - sluts who are hated by everyone.
Homosexuals - hate women
Women - don't really care.
#112biphobia in the gay community. has anyone experienced it?
Posted: 9/5/06 at 3:28pmand, p*ssy: it's not just for breakfast anymore.
...global warming can manifest itself as heat, cool, precipitation, storms, drought, wind, or any other phenomenon, much like a shapeshifter. -- jim geraghty
pray to st. jude
i'm a sonic reducer
he was the gimmicky sort
fenchurch=mejusthavingfun=magwildwood=mmousefan=bkcollector=bradmajors=somethingtotalkabout: the fenchurch mpd collective
#113biphobia in the gay community. has anyone experienced it?
Posted: 9/5/06 at 3:29pmi don't hate women, i'm repulsed by them; there's a difference. if you don't believe me, just ask sueleen.
PED
SueleenGay
Broadway Legend Joined: 6/9/03
#115biphobia in the gay community. has anyone experienced it?
Posted: 9/5/06 at 3:30pm
Shocked, RobbO. But not surprised.
#116biphobia in the gay community. has anyone experienced it?
Posted: 9/5/06 at 3:31pm
Googling Images of Flowers That Resemble Vaginas: Clever Non-Verbal Commentary or Lame Passive-Aggressive Attempts To Push Buttons? ; on the next Geraldo.
(oh, look, I can do it too!)
#117biphobia in the gay community. has anyone experienced it?
Posted: 9/5/06 at 3:33pmThat looks like Voldermort, Sueleen.
"In Oz, the verb is douchifizzation." PRS
SueleenGay
Broadway Legend Joined: 6/9/03
#118biphobia in the gay community. has anyone experienced it?
Posted: 9/5/06 at 3:34pm
Google images for "jailyardguy":
#119biphobia in the gay community. has anyone experienced it?
Posted: 9/5/06 at 3:35pmhe's hot!
"In Oz, the verb is douchifizzation." PRS
blueroses
Broadway Legend Joined: 10/18/04
#120biphobia in the gay community. has anyone experienced it?
Posted: 9/5/06 at 3:35pm
"If someone doesn't embrace or accept bisexuality, I see that as more about them then it is about whomever they might be analyzing or judging."
I agree with that intellectually. But I can completely understand a man or woman not being able to accept bisexuality in a romantic partner.
#121biphobia in the gay community. has anyone experienced it?
Posted: 9/5/06 at 3:39pm
Brilliant, darling. Brilliant!
(Now THAT is an orifice to be turned on by. Hubba.)
#122biphobia in the gay community. has anyone experienced it?
Posted: 9/5/06 at 3:39pmi couldn't have a partner that was bisexual either. i would always be waiting for the other shoe to drop and have him "go back" to being with a girl.
PED
#123biphobia in the gay community. has anyone experienced it?
Posted: 9/5/06 at 3:40pm
I admit that my perception of a bi-sexual is that of a "player."
Monogamous relationships are extremely difficult for them, because a partner of one gender will never completely satisfy them, due to their basic orientation. They are attracted to both sexes, and probably always will be.
For that reason alone, I steered away from guys who told me they were bisexual on the "dating scene," but certainly not as people. I always thought their lives would be so unsettled. Of course, I’m projecting that they even wanted a monogamous relationship… they might not have.
But I knew I ultimately wanted one, and also knew that I wouldn’t be able to find that in someone bisexual.
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#124biphobia in the gay community. has anyone experienced it?
Posted: 9/5/06 at 3:44pm
Thing is, a bisexual guy (or woman) could easily find a lifelong partner in a person who was ok with an open relationship.
That said, I think of all the difficulties various sexualities have (women finding a straight man to committ, gay guys finding the same, lesbians finding a NORMAL lesbian - come on, that was a joke), bisexual guys probably have it the hardest.
Most women are going to just wait for the "gay" shoe to drop and gay guys are going to eye every female friend with suspicion. Unfortunate but, I'm guessing, largely true.
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