After listening to the podcast, I have more to say.
As for why George's dad wasn't there, Shonda did toy with the idea. She said she finally decided it would be disrespectful to have him there considering how recent his death was... not to mention that, while his death affected everyone, Meredith was least affected by it.
In regards to Denny telling Meredith to live for her friends and for Derek, I don't think that was intended literally. I think it was more along the lines of "live for the time you'll have with them because they're the most important people in your life." I think that was affirmed when Meredith said she didn't want to just have the moments.
It hit really close to home when Meredith said "I had intimacy issues -- do you know how silly that sounds now?" Because we all have issues like that. Issues that, in the grand scheme of things, *are* very silly and sometimes keep you from some really amazing things in your life.
However trite and predictable, I really liked the moment between Ellis and Meredith. If you go back to the scene where Derek was yelling at Ellis, you'll notice when he walks out her expression changes and it appears that -- if only for a moment -- she's truly understood what he's said to her. You know, and you don't get to right those wrongs -- like how Meredith wasted what turned out to be her last day with her mother.... Her last lucid day. You don't get to right them, but you can be alright with them. (my dad died before I could ever right things with him and while I'm sorry for that, in retrospect, I understand that everything has happened exactly how it should have. I can relate)
Izzie and Callie. Oooooh Izzie and Callie. Alright. Maybe Callie was a little over the line with her comment. I'll give Izzie that. It wasn't unprovoked, however. Callie has tried time and time again to be proactive and be nice and get to know Izzie and be a part of their lives... and Izzie has done nothing but give her sh!t and be rude. Not for nothing, I think Izzie got everything she deserved from both George AND Callie last night. She needs someone to knock her ass off her high horse about all that.
I loved when Denny talked about moments and how that's all you get when you're dead -- moments with the ones you love. And how sometimes when he and Izzie are in the same place at the same time, he can feel her.... and he likes to think she knows he's there. Ditto the scene at the end between the two of them which made me bawl my eyes out.
Im so glad Burke finally "got" what Cristina was trying to say about Meredith being her 'person' and went to the bar to talk her into going back to the hospital. I also love how they showed Cristina -- who is NOT a touchy person by any means -- really connecting with Meredith because she wanted so badly for her to not be dead. And also how emotionally overjoyed she was when she did come around. Great great moment and Sandra Oh played it perfectly.
The scene where Richard was talking to Ellis absolutely broke my heart. I know what it's like to have this consuming love for someone, but not be able to be with them due to circumstance, timing, what-have-you. But to know that they are really never going to be there again -- that you won't be able to talk to them or hear their voice or laugh with them or just
be -- is one of the most gut wrenching and most heart breaking things I can imagine.
I HATED when Addison was sitting outside Meredith's room watching her with Derek. I know the expression on her face was supposed to say "damn, we never had that" but to me it said "Dammit, that b!tch lived."
I also think the bet between Sloan and Addison is crap. And the cut to Alex when she asked who would she be sleeping with was just WAY too cheesy and predictable.
I didn't realize till I read the writers blog this morning that Marti Noxon wrote this episode. It was clear to me that something was off, considering Shonda wrote the first two episodes of the arc, but now I understand why.
"You're every gay man's wet dream!" ~ MA
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Updated On: 2/23/07 at 01:14 PM