Yes, I know...but this is semi-serious. I really like a guy with a little extra weight on him, as long as he's a big-framed guy anyway. I find it very attractive, even though those guys are rarely into skinny little guys like me. The reason I say this is because I'm working in an office today with a really cute heavier guy--not like ENORMOUS, but about 10-20 lbs overweight. Anyone care to weigh in on men who weigh a little more? And do you think it's more acceptable for men or women?
Broadway Legend Joined: 12/31/69
I've always felt it depended on how comfortable the person was in their body, which affects how they use it - and that goes for men OR women.
10 extra pounds is one thing, flat out gravy, not so much.
I sort of like when a guy has a *little* paunch. I think it's cute. That being said, I'd never allow myself to get one. I'm weird about stuff like that- tattoos I think can be so hot, but I'd never get one.
I just love men in general. I love love LOVE skinny little geek boys but I also like a guy with a little meat on his bones. I think because I'm kinda chubby I don't mind, and sometimes really like, a guy who's built a little more like me. The one type I don't really gravitate towards are the buff, model types. Ugh!
Well, speaking as a woman...
I was recently told that people are attraced to me, and they think its weird because they are generally attracted to skinny girls. I think its a compliment...
Oh also, for some reason I think when men have facial hair (scruff or goatee) they can carry extra weight better.
I'm way more than 10 pounds overweight. But as I'm a fraction over 6 feet tall and broad, I carry it very well. I am hoping to lose 40-50lbs over the next 8-12 months and while I will still be medically overweight, I wil be more than happy with it.
And for the record, skinny mini bum boys do nothing for me. I look at them and all I think is "you need a good hot pudding".
I think BMI (Body Mass Index) is a better way to gauge it than weight.
Broadway Legend Joined: 5/10/05
I couldn't date someone who was smaller than I am. I would always feel like a giantess attacking the villagers.
I look at them and all I think is "you need a good hot pudding".
Oh, Poppy! Such signature potential.
Hehe, thanks Addy
I find all men attractive for different reasons. As to body size, my partners have ranged from 5'4" to 6'7" and from 125 lbs. to 250 lbs. Most have been in the 5'7" or 5'8" range. They all turned me on! At 6'4", 195 I guess I worked for them too.
I love love LOVE skinny little geek boys
That would be me! I find that gay men prefer guys with a little more weight and build, though, much to my despair.
SOMMS is exceedingly handsome.
I suppose that's close to what I'm talking about--I mean, I don't want to bang Pavarotti, but Alec Baldwin is HOT!
I like cubs and bear types as much as I do skinny and toned guys. But, just average joe is yum, too.
And, at the end of the day--I prob get laid a LOT more than picky model types.
Broadway Legend Joined: 12/31/69
DG -- you have no clue. I just swoon whenever I see SOMMS.
And last time I saw him, he kissed me!
*squeals*
*faints*
I like the sound of that DG, though with you I'd need a grappling hook. You're 8 inches....taller...
Yeah, well you're male!
Granted, it was a peck. But *swoon*
Next time Shira, I'm going to dip you and give you a big, wet one on the lips --- a kiss that is.
Updated On: 11/1/05 at 02:13 PM
*giggles*
Tall is a very good thing. I'm too short.
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