This was posted on Facebook by a friend of my niece, a man who is a self described Conservative, Republican Christian:
"I have to view this proposition and every other gay marriage action in light of the three main parts of who I am:
1. An American
2. A Christian
3. A Republican
As an American, I seek to ensure that this Nation is today as free as or even more so than it was yesterday. We declared our independence upon that great philosophy that every human is endowed by a creator with the inalienable rights of Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness. The first two are self explanatory. The last, that of pursuing happiness, is one upon which I most often fall.
If I, as an American, want to protect my own right to pursue happiness within the bounds of respect for my fellow patriots, I must protect that right for everyone. The notion that two Americans of the same gender make each other happy is not one that I understand, but a pursuit which I cannot but protect.
As a Christian, I am taught by Jesus himself that there are three things that I should do, above all others.
"'You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind' - this is the great and foremost commandment, and there is a second like it, 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself'. The whole Law and Prophets hang on these two commands." (Mtt 22:37-40, Mrk 12:28-34).
There are many theological debates on the issue of homosexuality, and I have, at one or another time in my life, argued both sides. I have come to rest on these beliefs: I am no theologian, I have no idea if homosexuality originates in the DNA or by choice, and it does not matter. I am commanded by the man whose life was sacrificed for my own to love my neighbor as myself. Not after my neighbor passes a test, or agrees with me on all the issues. I am just to love him as myself. Taken to the next level, if I am to emulate Christ, I should love my neighbor more than myself, regardless of his lifestyle.
As a Republican, I have come to the conclusion that the argument does not stick. I am a Republican because I believe the idea of limited government and fiscal restraint are the best avenues of government. History, in that regard, is in our favor. Somewhere along the line, Republicans got saddled with the idea that we MUST be the party of only one homogeneous person.
We have been slipping since. I cannot be an advocate for limited government across the board - except in that one area. Either we limit it, or we don’t. I vote for the former. Therefore I most easily reconcile being a (truly) conservative Republican with the fact that it is none of Uncle Sam’s business who I marry, so long as that person is an adult.
In conclusion, the one event in my life that cemented these three beliefs was when I married my wife. I cannot tell you what manner of trouble I would have raised if we had been prohibited from marrying, nor the lengths I would have gone so that she would be my wife. I refuse, as an American, to deny someone the pursuit of happiness with a spouse that makes them as happy as my wife makes me. I refuse, as a Christian, not to love everyone equally. I refuse, as a Republican, to lose another election because we are on the wrong side of this issue."
So there is hope.
Cheyenne Jackson tickled me. AFTER ordering SoMMS a drink but NOT tickling him, and hanging out with Girly in his dressing room (where he DIDN'T tickle her) but BEFORE we got married. To others. And then he tweeted Boobs. He also tweeted he's good friends with some chick on "The Voice" who just happens to be good friends with Tink's ex. And I'm still married. Oh, and this just in: "Pettiness, spite, malice ....Such ugly emotions... So sad." - After Eight, talking about MEEEEEEEE!!! I'm so honored! :-)
Updated On: 8/5/10 at 09:56 PM