Mister Matt is exactly right. While I do not believe in blaming the victim, Perez looks like the playground bully who got punched in the face by the school geek and then starts crying and says, "look what he did to me."
Plus, Perez got all histrionic and turned nelly queen after it happened, which will garner him alot of sympathy with governing bodies. NOT! It isn't right, but it is what happens. There is little to no sympathy for gay men as it is, much less when you nelly out.
"The sexual energy between the mother and son really concerns me!"-random woman behind me at Next to Normal
"I want to meet him after and bang him!"-random woman who exposed her breasts at Rock of Ages, referring to James Carpinello