I don't have much to say about this topic, but it has been a fascinating read.
I feel exactly the same as Bwaysinger about the nature of relationships developed through the internet. There is not really a category for the "friends" I have on here that I have not met, especially since, as Plum said yesterday, we are basically creating a persona for ourselves that even if it is the same as who we really are, can be modified and tweaked to fit our desires. I have met some real people though, and I consider them to be close friends. I also "am" who I am online, including the circuitous phrasing and tangential thought, so I have that expectation of others.
The idea of a message board itself and blogging, is an offshoot of the idea of making things our own anyway. The internet initially had a "grass roots" quality, then it became corporate and controlled, so in order to be expressive and form community inside that corporate space, people have once again gone to a form where individuality and creativity of individuals is the most important thing.
As with the industrial revolution itself started by organizing in home laborers, who were eventually driven out of their homes and into factories because of the very system resulted in people needing to spend time "creating" items at home once again, we have the same cycle repeating in modern forms of technology.
I stand corrected, you are as vapid as they say.