Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me- Page 3
Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me
#50re: Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me
Posted: 2/5/08 at 2:05pm
Clumsy, ALL our fathers would prefer we didn't only handle balls in pairs.
And yes, a Sondheim balances out a Schwartz.
#51re: Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me
Posted: 2/5/08 at 2:13pm
UPDATE: My aunt is fine with it, she still loves me and is proud of me for it, and said she isn't dumb, she could tell. So, I'm happy. And I told her she's my Plan B and she said I am always welcome. 
Oh, lildogs! haha!
"Anybody that goes to the theater, I think we’re all misfits, so we ended up on stage or in the audience.” --- Patti LuPone.
DG
Broadway Legend Joined: 11/2/05
#52re: Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me
Posted: 2/5/08 at 2:17pmI'm thinking you might want to go with plan B, no matter what else you decide to do.
robbiej
Broadway Legend Joined: 5/20/03
#53re: Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me
Posted: 2/5/08 at 2:21pm
Yeah...look at making Plan B Plan A. And since your dad already wants you to move out, you've got cover without having to come out yet. Honestly...a supportive adult that will give you a loving home is way more important than living with your parents out of obligation. You'll thrive in a supportive home.
Close your eyes and leap, girlie!
"I'm so looking forward to a time when all the Reagan Democrats are dead."
Jonny boy
Broadway Legend Joined: 4/30/07
#54re: Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me
Posted: 2/5/08 at 2:21pmFunny.... my sister is the one who outed me to my parents. It was actually a relief that I didn't have to be the one to break it to my parents.
#55re: Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me
Posted: 2/5/08 at 2:22pmI'm so happy to hear this, clumsy. You sound much happier too!
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#56re: Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me
Posted: 2/5/08 at 2:37pm
My fifth grade teacher outed me to my mother.
My "Houston Gay & Lesbian Yellow Pages" I left lying around outed me to my sister.
#57re: Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me
Posted: 2/5/08 at 2:46pmYou woulda thought the posters of Vivien, Greta and Marilyn would have outed me or the "Dark at the Top of the Stairs" movie star scrapbook I had or watching "As the World Turns" each afternoon while eating two corn dogs.
etoile
Broadway Legend Joined: 8/2/03
#58re: Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me
Posted: 2/5/08 at 2:59pm
Clumsy, if you're still concerned about your sister having proof that she can confirm you're gay, then you may want to think about requesting this thread be deleted. Sis already knows BWW is a site you visit. She can read this thread, print it out, and have the confirmation she's looking for. She could show it to other family members.
I know there's advice here you may like to return to, and that may be help to others, but your safety and your "coming out" timetable are what's important. I'm sure if you sent a PM to the moderator, they would understand if you wanted it deleted.
Just something to think about since anyone can read the board without being a member.
Rest in peace, Iflitifloat.
#59re: Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me
Posted: 2/5/08 at 4:31pmPack it up and go to that wonderful aunt's home ! You'll be much happier there ! But before you leave, act like it's the last thing you wanted to do, but have no choice and make sure you fill that little bitch's soul with guilt and shame, to last her till adulthood !!! You'll be doing her a favor, stopping her from prying her nose into other people's affairs !!
#60re: Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me
Posted: 2/5/08 at 7:21pm
Update: I told my mother, she thinks I "chose" this and that I'm not sure, because I've never been with a girl and I said "Mom, this is not something someone chooses, you just are." So she accepted it, I guess, she is more or less in denial. I am not going to tell my father, I say he has no reason to know, I don't tell him anything, so I think keeping him in the dark is the best and my brother, my mother told me would beat me up, which he's seventeen, but yet again, I don't tell him anything, so I have nothing to worry about: My sister hasn't said anything, and she doesn't know about BroadwayWorld.com and she is locked from my computer, I put a password of numbers on here, so she'll never figure it out. I have told the important people in my life, and thats all I really wanted. I apperciate all those who have supported me through this.
And yes, I am STILL watching Legally Blonde.
Oh and another HOW DID THEY NOT KNOW---> My ringtone is Omigod You Guys!
I have moving to my aunt's in my plans if things get uber worse, and I hope it doesnt come to that, but if I do, then I will most certainly move, but I have a feeling I already will be: My family is moving SOMEWHERE, and if it's too far for me to go to the school in our county where I'm currently going, I'm already planned that as a option.
"Anybody that goes to the theater, I think we’re all misfits, so we ended up on stage or in the audience.” --- Patti LuPone.
Broadway Legend Joined: 12/31/69
#61re: Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me
Posted: 2/5/08 at 7:43pm
you should be PROactive & move first, because you WANT to.
dont be REactive & move later, because you HAVE to.
LePetiteFromage
Broadway Legend Joined: 1/19/08
#63re: Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me
Posted: 2/5/08 at 7:59pm
Make sure you tell your sister what a huge upset her actions caused you. Don't let her get away easy, she doesn't deserve it. And if your YOUNGER brother even tries to lay a hand on you, stand up for yourself and break his f.....g arm with a bat ! It is his duty to respect his older brother, no matter what !!! And if your parents are incompetent to teach him that, you let him know, once and for all ! NEVER be afraid to stand up for yourself ! You are a fine guy and never let anyone make you doubt yourself !!!
Updated On: 2/5/08 at 07:59 PM
#64re: Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me
Posted: 2/5/08 at 8:34pmUpdate: I'm going to speak to my sister, and attempt to set her straight on how wrong she was. As far as my brother is concerned, he is 17, a horrible age for anyone, I don't see much threat from him, I'll tell him in duetime, but for now, he doesnt need to know. I am not going to let anyone walk all over me anymore, and moving out is most likely coming in my future anyway, just based on how I cannot stand my father for much longer and everytime he gets pissed he tells me to pack and move and it's coming soon, I can feel it. I'll go live with my grandpa and my aunt and live a happy gay existence, within reason due to my STRONG Catholic grandpa. But, it's defintely in the works to move out. And my friend who I told awhile pack is considering moving out on her own and I may go live with her. So, I shall be doing pretty nicely, but the intital fear is over, the most important people in my life know, and between BWW and I, I think I'm falling for a certain poster. But, SHHH!
"Anybody that goes to the theater, I think we’re all misfits, so we ended up on stage or in the audience.” --- Patti LuPone.
#65re: Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me
Posted: 2/5/08 at 8:54pmUpdate: Attempted to talk to sister, she is being immature. I tried, she resisted, I attempted even more, she took a picture of her off my wall and knocked it to the ground. Can we say BIYOTCH?
"Anybody that goes to the theater, I think we’re all misfits, so we ended up on stage or in the audience.” --- Patti LuPone.
Phyllis Rogers Stone
Broadway Legend Joined: 9/16/07
#66re: Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me
Posted: 2/5/08 at 9:10pmYeah, darling, you're family is messed up. You should go have gay sex and forget this whole sordid mess.
#67re: Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me
Posted: 2/5/08 at 9:13pmAnd don't forget to write it all down for your memoirs.
#68re: Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me
Posted: 2/5/08 at 9:16pmHey clumsy-is that you in your av?
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#69re: Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me
Posted: 2/5/08 at 9:20pm
Gay sex---> I wish!
My family is MESSED UP.
I'm the normal one! haha.
"Hey clumsy-is that you in your av? "
No, that is my hottie hottie crush, Noah Weisberg of Legally Blonde fame.
This is me: 
"Anybody that goes to the theater, I think we’re all misfits, so we ended up on stage or in the audience.” --- Patti LuPone.
#70re: Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me
Posted: 2/5/08 at 9:25pmYou're very cute, and look young-you'll be happy about that when you get older!
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#71re: Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me
Posted: 2/5/08 at 9:29pmHAHA. Thank you! I look like I'm tweleve and I sound like I'm tweleve too.
"Anybody that goes to the theater, I think we’re all misfits, so we ended up on stage or in the audience.” --- Patti LuPone.
#72re: Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me
Posted: 2/5/08 at 9:35pm
I'm afraid I don't have much advice for you, but I just want to congratulate you for having the courage to come out. It's difficult, but it's a great thing to do for yourself.
Good luck!
I am a firm believer in serendipity- all the random pieces coming together in one wonderful moment, when suddenly you see what their purpose was all along.
Broadway Legend Joined: 12/31/69
#73re: Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me
Posted: 2/5/08 at 9:39pm
I'm so glad things are looking up- but as to falling for that "Special Poster"....
I'm flattered, but I really am too old for you. You need to find someone else.
Please, when you speak of this in the future, and you will, be kind.
Broadway Legend Joined: 12/31/69
#74re: Sneaky Sister Basically Attempts to Out Me
Posted: 2/5/08 at 9:39pmget out of that house, hun.
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