I still can't believe Damon wasn't nominated for this, but there we are. As for Gwyneth, the character of Marge is tricky and I think she did well with it, especially when she flips at the end and attacks Tom, yelling "I know it was you, I know it was you." I would have liked Philip Seymour Hoffman to get some kind of recognition for his portrayal of Freddie. He's amazing in it.
Nothing precious, plain to see, don't make a fuss over me. Not loud, not soft, but somewhere inbetween. Say sorry, just let it be the word you mean.