Not being bitter here but every single young gay couple i know who married (and some with adopted kids) ended up miserably divorcing.
And I know several longtime couples who got married after decades together and were divorced inside of two years. Moral of the story: anecdotal evidence is anecdotal.
Congratulations and love to Andrew and Scott.
"You travel alone because other people are only there to remind you how much that hook hurts that we all bit down on. Wait for that one day we can bite free and get back out there in space where we belong, sail back over water, over skies, into space, the hook finally out of our mouths and we wander back out there in space spawning to other planets never to return hurrah to earth and we'll look back and can't even see these lives here anymore. Only the taste of blood to remind us we ever existed. The earth is small. We're gone. We're dead. We're safe."
-John Guare, Landscape of the Body