Come on... Spring Awakening is tame compared to a lot of other things you see on television and in movies. Is the show really that shocking? You guys are easily shocked...
I don't really see the point in getting offended by things. A lot of the things you guys are saying offended you (such as Man in the Chair's unspecified sexual orientation) seem to be specific choices made on the parts of the artists involved to give you something to think about later. Basically it seems like a lot of you are offended by having to think about certain truths/situations in life, hear certain words, see certain things...
That said, sometimes blatant bigotry DOES offend me. The ending of the stage version of The History Boys offends the hell out of me. One gay character dies, the other is confined to a wheel chair, and the third one, the perfectly adjusted, apparently happy, well rounded and amazing Posner, is condemned to a lifetime of unhappiness frequenting internet sex rooms. This is an amazing young boy and the play offers us all evidence that he's going to lead an amazing life but he's condemned to suffer because he's gay. It's a bewildering stain on what should have been a great experience.
yr ronin,
joey