I get that there are a bunch of "opera snobs" or "classically trained snobs" in the world and at Juilliard. And they have a world-class program, so (I suppose) their arrogance can be backed up even if it isn't necessary.
I just think the comment (if she wasn't paraphrasing or if she was more or less capturing the gist of their meaning) was ill-timed, harsh, and classless.
To me, it implies, "Well, if you can't cut it right now, honey, go do something simpler that makes you happy." You know, "that musical theatre thing."
Glad it worked out for her just a little bit.
"Jaws is the Citizen Kane of movies."
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