Yet another "be nice about everyone" post.
Get over it. If you think the theatre world is at all universally pleasant, you are sorely mistaken.
I guess i dont find her self-deprication and general comportment much of a defining factor because in the uk, public figures using self-deprecating humour is more usual and is far more readily available to see.
I have heard her voice, ive listened to it extensively, and I just dont get it. And before I get accused of having untrained ears, well, 8 years of vocal training (before I made the technical/producing move) mean I can safely say I know what im on about.
However, she really DOES look like a man in drag!
(not entirely seriously)