^This. Obviously there are individuals that don't believe everyone has their right to state their opinions.
"Supposed to be supportive" - please, that's on the outside - they are just as cutthroat and catty (privately) as any other group of people. You think most of the b'way community doesn't talk about what they really think? Of course they do.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.