fashionguru_23 said: "TheatreFan4 said: "This is a tired storyline. "We don't know" was something acceptable back during the first run of Will & Grace. In 2022? Nah... If their sexuality should not matter to they're playing a role from the producer's standpoint? It's whatever. It's another thing entirely to EXCUSE it because "We don't know". You want to play a Queer character, you have to own up to your own queerness and own it for me. ESPECIALLY men this far into their careers like Wayne Brady & Bruno Mars. I'm more forgiving as it pertains to young folk on say Heartbreakers from doing it, but people who have had LONG careers? Give me a break."
I don't know about you, but coming to terms with my sexuality is something extremly personal and something that I don't feel we need to ask every actor who plays a queer role to show us their "gay passport" for approval."
I hear what you're saying, but I don't think that's the point TheaterFan4 was making. It's the co-opting of our identities and personalities and culture for a movie or some media circus like a PR event (cough Charlie Puth cough), and then being able to shed it next day and be all "oops, lol no you misread my intentions". It reinforces the idea that being gay, femme, or trans is just a choice / costume. Have your personal journey, no one's coming for you. But we as a community don't have to be tolerant of the said co-opting; they're not owed acceptance for effectively reinforcing the hurtful stereotypes on the very community they are claiming to represent.
An example is Stanley Tucci - who has never once claimed to be gay but his portrayal has never once appeared offensive to me. It's done with utmost care and reverence.
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Updated On: 9/26/22 at 09:46 AM