AnnieBlack said: "I think everyone can agree that rude audience behavior (texting, eating candies, etc) is unacceptable, but when people are called out for not expressing enough gratitude for having sat through a show they paid for, I think it's rubbing a lot of people the wrong way. It's a very 'me me me' attitude.
AnnieBlack said: "wonderfulwizard11 said: "Kad said: "Ah, yes. Ethel Merman, that respectful and tactful lady."
Seriously- Ethel Merman had a widespread reputation for having a filthy mouth, and certainly wasn't some kind of wallflower.
But was she filthy at the stage door? "
The stage door was not the same phenomenon it is today. And going on the stories of her decorum alone, I highly doubt Merman cared enough about what the "public" might think to the point that she talked to fans any differently than she talked to anyone else.
Isn't applause kind of like tipping - reflection of the service received? The prevailing philosophy on tipping seems to be that you tip no matter the service. I realize it's not a complete comparison because applause doesn't help pay the rent, but, I'm sorry, I also can never see the possibility of Ms Benanti no providing "service" worthy of a tip. Heck, just being able watch her smile is worth 15%. (Did I type that out loud?)
I really don't see what all of the fuss is about. Laura is an incredible person and performer. I think this was mostly a joke but I can understand her frustration.
I think Laura would prefer that everyone have a happy face and big applause at the theatre, and then go home and complain bitterly about the performance on the internet
Reading tweets, it was supposedly (and I'm stressing supposedly) one elderly man in the front who wasn't applauding who has caused this whole kerfuffle.
There is a disconnected energy from the audience these days that transfers to the stage and it affects the actors in a negative way. I think a big part of this is because we spend less and less time watching things in front of audiences and more and more time on our phones and computers that we've sort of forgotten how to watch live events (if you are under 30 you probably don't know how to watch a live event at all).
Totally agree--well said. This perverted need to rush to a keyboard/pad and record our every thought is totally out of hand.
IF , as it seems, almost everyone now-a-days is glued to their devices there really is no need for all this 'he said, she said' back and forth as it is all so petty in the light of bigger issues.
You all have contributed to this situation by reading a personal/everyone access thought and pounced--it really doesn't warrant this much discussion.
If you continue down this path it will eventually be YOUR turn to feel the wrath from the keyboard.
Off now to listen to the wireless while I boil the jug for a cuppa....................x
Lord, no! Insecure actresses who talk about their hurt feelings, whether warranted or not, must be criticized, torn apart, mocked and stalked until that horse has been beaten into so many pieces that there is nothing left to beat.
When I do to a show, I will applaud wildly if I love a number. If I like it, I will applaud healthily. If I don't like the number or the performance, I do not pretend that I did. I feel that there are enough people applauding to avoid embarrassment for the performr(s) and see no reason to applaud something I didn't like.
I have paid good money, travelled to the city, etc. Why should I be guilted to applaud if I don't like it. It is not like I am booing. I am talking about individual numbers, not every one. To me, applauds for a well done job just adds to the experience, but I am not going to pretend.
i have to admit that I rarely applauded at the Rocky numbers a few years ago because I thought the score was awful and everything sounded like filler leading up to the grand finale. Same thing with Bullets Over Broadway. I applauded wildly several times during Something Rotten, but did not feel compelled to do so after a couple of mediocre numbers. Shoot me.