newintown, you are so easily provoked that is amusing.
However, to your point, if sissy types were the only type that we see now a days, I would agree with you, but to call them "Uncle Toms" and "Aunt Jemimas" is not only a bit inaccurate, but pretty untrue. Those sissy types, that you are "evolving" out of our culture, happen to be the ones that were leading the charge for whatever rights and change we see now. They were at Stonewall, leading marches, protesting, and doing die ins for Act Up. So to call them that is pretty disrespectful. I am happy that there are more "butch" types represented in culture (I tend to lean that way myself). And I say this as a person that grew up with the Paul Lynde and Alan Sues types being pretty much all I saw in the media as a younger person.
I'm all for diversity, and believe that whatever people want to label themselves is fine (including the much maligned "questioning" and "fluid"
. I have been out for almost 40 years now, and today I still see these "sissy" folks at festivals, at school proms (sometimes even running for Prom King - or Queen), at political rallies, at rights demonstrations, at women's marches, and at all manner of other functions. So, if you are uncomfortable with that "stereotype", perhaps it says more about you, than the actual stereotype.
BTW, it's the same argument that has been heard in the gay community, for decades, "If we weren't represented by those people, and, if gay people just acted more "normal", than we would be accepted (or sometimes folks might say, more accepted)". I don't agree with this ideology, and never will. Those people are the ones that are part of our community, have been there and probably will be there always. To "pink" wash them away is a disservice to history.
Thanks for the "discussion".