I think you're being ingenuous ALWrules you don't want to know why people hate Cats, you want them to agree with you that it's the best show ever. They say, "I hate it because bla bla bla". You say "but why is bla bla bla." You are not going to come up with an argument that will make everyone say, "wow, ALWrules is right, it is the best show ever." People will hate the show whether they have a clear reason or not, and you will never understand their reasons because you don't want to.
Just be content that you love the show and that's great. There are probably more of you than there are Sondheim, William Finn, LaChuisa or Guettel fans out there. Just be happy you're in the majority--you won!
Yes, we do need a third vampire musical.--Little Sally, Gypsy of the Year 2005.