paradox, the song is very available for men to sing; it's not all that difficult.
just because you're a man doesn't mean you can't sing a song.
i was singing "i will never leave you" for a class once and i said, 'i like this song but it's for women...' and my teacher said, 'if you're singing it, it's for you."
i think that's a pretty good philosophy to live by. if you can sing it, there's no reason why you shouldn't.
and i doubt he would look like an idiot simply because he's singing it; in fact, if you have the courage to break out of the box that way and do what you want to do, i say go for it.
so, fiyero, go for it.
whatever and ever amen - ben folds five