I dont see how public performances indicate gaining steam. At all. What they are trying to gain is both a paying audience and attention.
Those tv shows arent inviting them because they think they are going to win- the bway production asks (and pays, i believe) to go on them.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.