Yes, that's how these things happen...you're a part of it until you are not. It just sounds like they wanted different things for the show....happens sell the time. Those differences likely became apparent at the lab you mentioned.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.