Honestly, I don’t think the days of it are gone per se. Like many had cited, it’s now the era of the selfie for sure. If anything, I do venture to agree that, for bigger stars, the autograph hounds for eBay certainly made it less pleasant.
An example I have is when I had the good fortune to meet Patti LaBelle after “After Midnight”. She came out and was the sweetest-as-pie (pun intended) person you could imagine. However, there was an autograph hunter looking to get some of his records of hers signed. You could tell she was not pleased because she could tell. So she half-assedly signed the records and moved to the next person who actually did see the show. (Bonus: I had my own Sharpie and when she moved down the line, she asked if someone had one she could use - I let her borrow mine, and when she was done, she came back and said “Thank you, baby” and kissed me of the cheek)
I always prefer the autograph because, when I display it in my apartment, there’s always a story to tell. The selfies are nice for sure, but they’re more of an “immediate gratification” thing (like I could get dozens of reactions on social media from when I leave the show until when I get home)
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