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Since you asked...
First, I think everyone is entitled to their opinion and I truly understand and respect that there are those moved by shows that leave me feeling little or nothing.
I am not christian and I generally find little interest in art that is strongly religious. My personal experience is that those who use the bible as their reference point have a worldview very different than my own. I don't wish to judge, and I truly want to remain open minded, but I find myself often judging people with strong religious conviction for their judgement of me not sharing their perspective.
Am I being clear?... I am okay with everyone having their own perspective, I'm not okay with that perspective limiting my options or dictating to me a moral/ethical code. I see the hypocrisy in what I'm typing, but where I am okay with my stance is that I don't try to restrict someone's worldview and I'd appreciate being offered the same respect and open mindedness.
Because of this, there is a culture within certain religious communities that I find extremely repressive. Bare is a good example of this. People have written that they find it's message inspiring. Bare makes it's point through shame and guilt. I have little patients for shame and guilt.
As I typed earlier, I am a middle aged gay man. In the late 60's early 70's it was somewhat revolutionary to be a young teen and out. I suspect I was a bit more rebellious - even defiant - that I needed to be, but age has mellowed me.
For most of my young adulthood, I struggled to create a world - perhaps community - that was visible and proud. Homophobia was the enemy, and the worst was internalized homophobia. It was an affront to everything I and my friends stood and fought for.
I wanted to believe that we accomplished a lot in those days. Unfortunately, AIDs set us back tremendously, but also our fear and belief that we had to remain invisible contributed to our ongoing repression.
Today, I am often surprised at how little was accomplished and also by how much was. Gay youth still have many of the same issues and still hold on to many of the fears that enslave us. This isn't just about coming out, it's about how we relate as a community. It's about respect for each other and our relationships, or lack of. I could go on and on...
I am tired of art where the main characters have to die. It was great when Shakespeare wrote Romeo and Juliette. Hey, I even love West Side Story. I'm over it now. Why do the role models have to be self-destructive?
Bare is about the effects of internalized homophobia and makes it's point by pulling at our heart strings. It offers no solutions. It offers no vision of possibility, or even the possibility of possibility. Please! How dull and uninspired can we be?
In fact, even in Romeo and Juliette and West Side Story, it's the hate that kills the protagonist(s). In Bare, the main character is a victim of his own weakness. In fact, the main character isn't a victim at all, he's the perpetrator. He's too weak to realize what is obvious and therefore kills himself and damages all those around him. I didn't feel sorry for his death, I felt sorry for his stupidity. Please, get a life!
For me it's tired. Done to death. Says nothing that hasn't been said a million times before. Can we please have more positive gay role models. They can have adversity, even die, but let their death be because of their struggle and not because they are victims of their own fear.
On an entirely different note... I love "rock" shows. I truly found the score to Bare loud and without much merit. I haven't listened to the score since I saw it in the theater and perhaps if I gave it another chance, I might find its artistry. Unfortunately, what I experienced was so lame and derivative (redundant much), that I never considered giving the score another chance.
Clearly, I had a reaction to Bare, but mostly, I was bored.
Updated On: 3/6/10 at 02:17 PM