Good heavens, Dave19, I defended part of what you said, but now, I think you're sounding insensitive, at the least.
I believe that there is a lack of parallelism between white people and persons of color, just as there is between Christians and Jews, and between straight people and gay people. Those who say that we should ignore race (or religion, or any other minority status) do not, in my experience, mean that we should progress to a point where being a minority doesn't matter -- instead they mean to freeze the status quo and forget about doing anything further to address discrimination. This is a form of "don't ask, don't tell," which leaves the majority feeling less guilty, but does nothing to advance the day when the only race that matters is the human race.
I certainly admit that majority people have some legitimate beefs, especially when it comes to the clumsy way that many entities implement affirmative action. I worked for an entity that ran such a program, and no two people could figure out what it was designed to do, let alone how to do it fairly. I've also seen such programs backfire, because it leads to more anti-minority discrimination. (If you want to know how, please send me a private message).
What the cultural difference deniers fail to understand is that, by insisting everything be vanilla, they're insisting that people with other backgrounds conform to their own cultural model. It's easy for a person whose Christian family got to the US from Europe in the early 1800's to tell Jewish people to get over the Holocaust. We will, eventually, but others shouldn't judge. I'm sure black Americans would be "over" slavery by now if equality had replaced it, instead of a century of Jim Crow.
So, for goodness sake, Dave and others, please accept that the LAW may require equality, but that doesn't mean that there is yet equal opportunity in theatre or elsewhere. Sometimes, the most open-minded members of the majority (of whom I hope I'm one) will disagree with people of color regarding whether particular casting is justified -- I know I scratched my head when some folks argued that only Asian people should be cast in a G&S society's production of the Mikado.OTOH, I get quite upset when people say that the "best" performer should be cast in a role, as if the "best" were always white;"best" is often a subjective thing in theatre, based on whose performance we happen to like the most.
So, please, Dave19, show some sensitivity -- if you never had to worry about race, please don't assume that people who did should stop doing so because discrimination is illegal. It takes generations to get over a stain like Jim Crow.
End of rant. Carry on!
Audrey, the Phantom Phanatic, who nonetheless would rather be Jean Valjean, who knew how to make lemonade out of lemons.