What are you talking about?
They weren't secrets. And the private information was something I never have and STILL have not posted about. They were details about her illness and I repeatedly said it was not my private information to tell. Laura asked me to post a note regarding her absences, and I did. Then people asked me how I knew her, and I explained. Your "BFF" comments were unncessary, as my relationship with Laura is all fact, whether you want to accept that or not. Quite a few people on these boards have been witness to my relationship with her - whether or not you want to believe them is your choice.
Also, can you name a specific example as to when I've been unreliable?
1. Laura asked me to post a note about her absences. A week later, the news about her medical leave was announced. Coincidence? Doubt it.
2. I'm confirming the fact that she's back on October 3rd. So are other people. So, since I'm agreeing with them, that makes me wrong, or uncredible? How?
I had some people today at the flea market come up to me about this situation and tell me that they find it admirable how much I support my friend.
Now, if you want to talk about fandom and me just being a "fan"... think about this: I had practically no idea who Laura was until I was introduced to her through a friend. I'd seen her in ITW when I was younger, but don't really have much of a recollection of it. So, really, how can that be fandom?
Laura has been through MANY rough changes in her life in the past few years. She needs, just as any human being does - celebrity or not - love and support from her friends and her family. I am simply being a friend.
I shouldn't feel the need to defend her or me anymore. And for a while, I didn't. But now, I'm, frankly, a little sick of this bullsh*t. It's unnecessary. It's childish. And each time you call me frightening, or immature, or whatever... you need to look in the mirror and see how many times you go around these boards teasing people, picking arguments, and making yourself out to be a very childish person.
Now? I'm going to bow out. My uncredible informaton is most likely going to prove itself true. I've known for a while about her return but wasn't sure if it was public knwoledge or not. Also -- I didn't really feel like starting another thread after the horror show the last one turned into.
Laura's asked me to bow out of this unfair treatment towards her and myself. These boards aren't healthy for anyone. It is full of immaturity and people who really need to find better things to do with themselves than sit around insulting people who they really know nothing about.
For a 25 year old, I suggest you grow up.
And everyone else who has supported her (and befriended me through that), I thank you and hope that you continue to do so as Laura's life slowly returns to normalcy.
Thanks!
-Steven McCasland
"I know now that theatre saved my life." - Susan Stroman
Updated On: 9/25/06 at 05:43 PM