Posted: 7/27/23 at 2:59pm
hearthemsing22 said: "Penna2 said: "hearthemsing22 said: "mshalo18 said: "alovingfan said: "pair-o-dice said: "Am I the only one who follows Julie Benko on social media? Because every time she has a big concert or gig, Lea seems to take off and be "sick" out-of-the-blue the days leading up to it. Like, Julie had a Birdland concert and live stream last night and Lea was suddenly under the weather this weekend."
My mind went there as well. But I don't believe it."
But it cuts both ways- it can also be said that a lot of Julie's gigs are around the same time that Lea has scheduled time off. She was scheduled to be off July 22nd and 23rd, and Julie's Birdland concert was the 24th.
"
You both truly wouldn't think it's planned that way, do you? I truly believe it's mere coincidence. That's insane and if so, very petty on the part of both of them."
I'm going to go out on a limb here and suggest neither one of them watches the other's schedule, except for Julie knowing the dates Lea is scheduled to be off. Lea knows she covered even if Julie is sick because of Ephie. Doubt she thinks about Julie at all. (Me being snotty, but likely true, nonetheless.) Julie isn't in that big a demand in other venues - her primary job is still in FG, so limits what commitments she can take on. Push comes to shove, I'm fairly certain her contract stipulates she can book what she wants so long as it doesn't interfere with FG, but if it does - the side job gets cancelled, unless they don't mind Ephie going on.
Going a step further, Lea has been showing photos of herself, her friends and her family at the Hamptons all summer which may or may not be related to whether she is there or not. So, I wouldn't put too much stock in her having been there during the most recent call it.
I do, however, feel bad for people who make plans to see a certain show/performer only to have them out sick. Been there, done that. Not fun and doesn't make you feel too warmly toward the star, even understanding people do get sick/have accidents. Seeing Julie is not the same as seeing Lea no matter what her fan base says."
Let me see if I have this right- your opinion of a performer would change if they called out for something beyond their control?"
It did happen to me, and my feelings changed for a while, but it didn't last long. I'm human and when I spend a lot of money and time arranging my life to see a show I'm going to be unhappy for a while if the plans go awry. BTW, it was Ramin. I still find him the most incredible singer/performer around.
If that hasn't happened to you, you are lucky. If it has and you weren't upset, maybe you're a saint. No one wants someone else to be injured (in his case), ill or have a family emergency, but my feeling are what they are and I'm not going to deny them. Good for mental health when you don't deny your instincts.