She is right in one sense, for sure: there are an awful lot of people who spend their lives thinking individualisticly instead of communally.
However, you've also got to step out of your single-minded nature and notice that there are kind people who think corporately.
It is all a matter of what you CHOOSE to notice. Thought are things. And things are thoughts.
"Fundamentalism means never having to say 'I'm wrong.'"
-- unknown