No it wouldn't have. People are not ATTACKING her, just bringing up her supposed behavior and criticizing it.
TKing....read the thread and you can catch up.
Guys, the POINT that is being made is that an audience member is disruptive to both the audience AND the cast with her histrionics on being affected by the show. THAT is wrong. No one is saying she shouldn't see the show. No one is telling her NOT to be moved. They are trying to point out that she is affecting the enjoyment of the show and the performers concentration.
Is there a better way to do it? Probably not. People like this (and note I have no direct experience with this individual person) do not see that they are being disruptive. Sometimes the hit you over the head with the info is the only way to get the message across.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.