This is our new culture.
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http://www.slate.com/articles/business/moneybox/2014/07/viral_craigslist_post_on_smartphones_in_restaurants_is_tech_ruining_the.html An article about service times bloated at restaurants and was found to be linked to our phone use (skip down if you don't care):
--26 out of 45 customers spend an average of 3 minutes taking photos of the food.
--14 out of 45 customers take pictures of each other with the food in front of them or as they are eating the food. This takes on average another 4 minutes as they must review and sometimes retake the photo.
--9 out of 45 customers sent their food back to reheat. Obviously if they didn’t pause to do whatever on their phone the food wouldn’t have gotten cold.
--27 out of 45 customers asked their waiter to take a group photo. 14 of those requested the waiter retake the photo.
WE. WANT. TO. TAKE. PICTURES. OF. EVERYTHING.
We NEED to facebook, tweet, instagram, snapchat, or whatever else we're doing these days to all of our "friends." It's an epidemic that will likely never go away.
So, even though people are told when they buy their tickets, at the door, as they walk in, as they're escorted to their seats, and before the show - they sit down and have 10 minutes before the show starts, so what do they do? What they always do. They take a picture because they're so excited they just HAVE TO SHARE IT WITH EVERYONE!
These front of house employees (I work in the biz, I can attest) struggle with this all the time. It's always a fight, and the people taking the pictures are more often combative and rude than not (usually because they're tourists feeling terribly entitled). I really never believe anyone misses the 5-8 times they were told in the last 5 minutes that they shouldn't be taking pictures, ergo I never believe the "Oh, I didn't realize" routine.
How can we fix it? Call these people out yourself (if you're comfortable with confrontation). I say, "Hey, you know you aren't supposed to take pictures in the theatre? It's technically a Felony." Most people hate confrontation, especially in public settings from their peers. If you get push back, just disengage. If you're near an usher who happens to see you do it, you'll probably make a friend (and possibly a seat upgrade). Front of house is a tough gig. Ultimately everyone should just learn to put away their phones and enjoy the show.
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