"The hell with the money ..."
Not everybody can say that. Not everybody has the same physical and financial resources. People convince themselves they're well enough to attend can't-miss events like weddings all the time.
That wasn't exactly the point. Not at all, really.
First of all, I am not a person with means. (whatever that means) I don't have money to throw away. I worked my entire life and whatever I have was earned. I get by.
I have spent money that I could barely afford, maybe splurged on, and had to forfeit it because of situations beyond my control, and due to illness.
My point is this- if I am ill, I'd rather take care of myself than go to an event just to suffer through it because I paid for it. It's everyone's prerogative to drag themselves out of bed and suffer because they spent money, or stay in bed. We all have our preferences.
There may be wealthy people on board here, Namo, but I am not one of them. thank you.
Edited to add- Namo - I also think it's not the wisest idea to drag yourself out of a sick bed to brave the elements, stand in close contact among others, possibly spreading whatever you have, wishing you were back in bed while sweat drips down your face and other aches and pains which make you sorry you came to the event.
You may place the most importance on the fact that you spent money, but I don't.
<-----I'M TOTES ROLLING MY EYES
Updated On: 1/21/13 at 12:10 PM