Posted: 6/15/23 at 10:41am
fugueindminor said: "Has anyone ever sent mail to an actor at a theater for a show they never went to? Is this a thing people do?
I've never done it, but I was just curious. It feels kind of tacky to me to send a request for an autographed playbill without going to see the show, though I suppose it's okay if you're just sending a nice letter of support like "I'm a big fan, wish I could be there!" without asking for something in return."
I did for My Fair Lady because my late grandmother had been a huge fan of The Avengers and of the musical before her passing, and I really wanted to get Diana Rigg's signature (since it synchronized the two memories in one event). I put in the letter that I had spent many hours with grandma watching her performances in the show and that, if she had time after signing for people who had seen the show, I would love to have a signed playbill as I would be unable to travel to NYC to see the performance live. She did, in fact, send one back (and part of me wonders if she was just glad someone wrote in about something other than Game of Thrones, which was big at the time).
That being said, I tend not to mail in unless I missed the stage door when I saw the show. Good form, I guess, might be to send a BC/EFA donation if you get anything back in these cases?
