She saw me surfing the website once a few days before I joined, and was like "you don't do this, do you?" She's seen me surfing it other times, but I make sure not to be logged in when she sees. I frantically close windows and things when my parents can see my computer screen. My mom doesn't know I've ever posted on a message board.
I think she's have a problem with the fact that I've posted and let it go so far as it has -- because even though I'm safe, when I was meeting people and giving out my phone number to them and things, I didn't *know* it was safe. So at the time, I was doing something I shouldn't have done.
I tell my mom what she needs to know. If I'm going somewhere with a BWW person and "friend from school" doesn't cut it, I make up some story about how I know said person. Eventually the plan is going to come crashing down, no doubt.
I just wish I could tell them, because it's so huge to me.
A work of art is an invitation to love.